Letting "GO"

Its funny how life changes right before your eyes.. I had the opportunity to talk with one of my friends today and he finally told me that he wasn't fully over his ex and for that reason (of course not that reason alone) he is not able to move forward because he hasn't let him go. For some reason I feel that this is an excuse to be stuck in a comfortable situation. I know that may seem harsh but the truth hurts. Reality talks to me a lot and I feel as if people let go of being selfish they can then let go of their ex. I know some of you are saying what does selfishness have to do with it.

"Picture it Sicily 2010" If a man tells you that he no longer wants to be with you, he's not happy with you, etc, Wouldn't you think that he means it? (I would). Now if this man is telling you that he does not want to be with you why not let him be happy with someone else? I know that it's natural human emotion to be sad/depressed (I know that's going to happen) when you break up with someone.. In my mind if someone tells me that they are not happy with me, I would want them to find that happiness with someone else (You damn right I will be hurt) and I will process those feelings that I have and move on (Not to someone else but I would let him be)..

I say all that to say, don't let your ex continue to dictate your life. How many times does he have to cheat on you before you realize "He's just not in to you". A lot of times we will miss out on what is truthfully suppose to be by holding on to what wasn't meant to be.. Take charge of your life and don't let someone who has found their happiness stop you from finding yours.

One Luv

Pat

Sweet & Greet '09 **EXCLUSIVE**

Now recently I chilled with a few youtube and twitter buddies of mine. For those that know me know that this was the first time that I have ever encountered something of this magnitude. In the past I was against Gay Pride. Reason being well I really don't know but what I do know is that my mind haven't changed much. I would rather just be around a group of friends instead of among thousands of "us" but nonetheless I still had fun.. Watch the vid and tell me what ya'll think!

**WELCOME**

What's good "intelligent people"? Welcome to my blog!! Here you will find a piece of my mind in a blog. There will be exclusive videos (not found on my youtube channel), exclusive pictures (anyone that know me know that I can't stand taking pictures) and of course my thoughts. So with all that said I want to thank you for stopping by and showing love!! Bare with me as I venture into the world of blogging!!!

One Luv

Pat